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“Put Yourself Out There!” Is Annoying Dating Advice

It’s tired. What else ya got?

Katie Dutch — used with permission

Last night at dinner my girlfriend and I were trading our latest war stories from the front lines of the dating hellscape. As is the plight of many single women whose friends have settled down, we get plenty of unsolicited advice about how we can meet Mr. Right.




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