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What Do We Do With What’s Left Behind?

When these things aren’t ours and we don’t have use for them

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I dated a man off and on for a year and a half. He lived five hours away and I’d drive out to see him when I could or, you know, when we were in “on” mode. The last time I saw him was May of 2019 and I left my jacket there.




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Vanessa Torre

Vanessa Torre

Writer, editor, plant junkie, music fan, and host of 🎙 I Hadn’t Considered That, a podcast about perspectives.

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