Wheel Chair
What do you think when you hear or read this title? Let’s say you may come up with an image in a mind or you understand it something like — a chair with wheels and resting pedals, used for those who faces difficulties with legs or so, right ?! So, in short you visualized one physical entity. That’s totally correct but what if I say we all have one wheel chair with us ?! Surprised!?! Don’t you guys agree with me or you guys are not sure about it ?!! Let me help you finding it….
We all have (including me) a wheel chair in our mind. Small one or big one doesn’t matter. What is important here is that it is there!! Have we done anything about it ?! Wait…I am sorry for asking wrong thing as one can do anything if and only if one is aware about it, isn’t it ?! Let me ask you rather this — Do you know anything about wheel chair placed by you only exists in your mind ?! Still not convinced ?! Let me clear what I meant by the word — “wheel chair” with some cases.
We all have our different kinds of fears, worries, disappointments, hatred, anger and this list can go long!! All these bad feelings make a human crippled. So crippled that even if we continue living our daily life then also the load of these not-so-good feelings is accumulated on our shoulders. That is where we are stuck in a wheel chair.
Let’s say you had a big fight with your friend or family member that you don’t want to see their faces anymore. You feel annoyed and start hating everything. We just can not see anything beyond our anger, ego may be, hatred. That’s where you’ve chose to sit on wheel chair.
Let’s take another case in which you are going through a break up period (not necessarily with a boy or a girl! it can be anything !!!) and you feel lonely, don’t like to roam around, don’t want to do anything, suddenly you start liking black color, deep sad quotes(may be you put it as your profile picture also!) and sad songs work like cherry on the top of a cake!!! If a friend or someone from your family calls you, you just ignore them!!! I want to ask you that if it’s not like sitting on a wheel chair then what other kind of mental state is it ?! Oh, I forgot to mention, you even start hating God!
Let me give you one more example. Suppose you are passing through bad time. Let’s say you are facing loss in business or you lost your job or you just faced a road accident, now tell me what could be going in your head ?! You just don’t want to smile, you hate doing anything and even hate talking!!!! This is where you’ve chosen to be on a wheel chair.
I guess I have given enough examples to make you understand what I meant by the word “wheel chair”. You know what you should put your status as “On a wheel chair” on each and every social media platform so that your family or friends don’t have to waste their time pampering you!!! No?! Don’t want to do it ?! Here’s what you can do!
You just do not have to be on it every now and then starting from a small pain to bigger one!! It’s self destructive and silly load in your head. You know why I just said ‘silly load’ ? Because the thing or person or anything!! has already eaten your enough time and energy. Now, it’s only you are there who is still stuck up there on that silly wheel chair. Start saying to yourself — “IT’S OKAY NOT TO BE OKAY!!” Friends, just accept what so ever happened with you. Difficult time and things are for observations and learning only.
Congratulations!!! and you also give a tap on your shoulder as you have survived from bad time and you are living!!!!Now, do not be lazy and pitiful. Dust yourself and start again, show others and yourself how well you can stand ?!
So now when you know about a secret wheel chair, are you going to do anything about it or you are just in love with it ?!
If I helped you finding hidden wheel chair and throw it out of your head then you can give claps (you can click multiple times on it :D)!!!
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