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Criteria For Complaining To Me About Your Spouse

I think you misunderstand my role as your divorced friend.

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*Prefacing real fast as an absolute must: I fully understand that there are people in relationships that are dangerous and abusive, that are more complicated than we could ever imagine. I am not talking about that here. What I am talking about here are average people in




For women in their 30s & 40s or whatever. If the internet doesn’t think you’re cool anymore, we do.

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Vanessa Torre

Vanessa Torre

Writer, editor, plant junkie, music fan, and host of 🎙 I Hadn’t Considered That, a podcast about perspectives.

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