Falling In Love Again With Your Spouse: Bob Grant Of Relationship Headquarters On 5 Things You Need To Rekindle Love In A Marriage That Has Gone Cold
An Interview With Brett Lovett
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14 min readFeb 22, 2022
Forgiveness: When two people marry, they are going to hurt one another. Most of the time it will be an accident, sometimes on purpose. To forgive your partner doesn’t mean you pretend it didn’t happen, it means not doing something to get even or harm the other.
When one partner has cheated, I ask the offended party if they are willing to forgive their partner. Often they confuse this with trust by saying, “It’s going to take time.” Forgiveness doesn’t take any time, it is a choice. By forgiving you are saying you are waving the debt your partner incurred toward you. Trust is what takes time. One person can forgive their partner, yet if that person keeps having affairs, it becomes…
