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Falling In Love Again With Your Spouse: Jean-Paul Gravel On 5 Things You Need To Rekindle Love In A Marriage That Has Gone Cold
An Interview With Brett Lovett
19 min readJul 18, 2022
Here is the key to turning your marriage around: You need to become attractive to your partner again. And I am not talking about physical attraction, even though that will help. Attraction is created by having high value as a partner. You need to become someone that is authentically happier, more confident, centered, smarter, more fun, more playful, supportive, etc. You have to put your attention on you, you have to take care of yourself first, with the intention of becoming a better you, so that you can become the best partner for your spouse. Attraction is not what is on the outside, but rather what is on the inside — who you are as a person. And you can’t fake it. You can put on a happy face, you can act…
