Therapist Dr. Bertrina Olivia West Al-Mahdi Maps Out The Road to Recovery When You Have Been the Victim of Domestic Violence

An interview with Ilyssa Panitz

Dr. Bertrina Olivia West Al-Mahdi says the key to surviving and thriving from a relationship/marriage that involved “domestic violence/abuse” is getting professional help and working through the trauma you experienced.

Did you know, it takes a victim of “Domestic Violence” an average of seven attempts to leave their abuser? Yes, seven! Breaking free, unfortunately is not easy. Trust me, I have been there. There are many reasons why victims have a hard time escaping an brutal/violent relationship. Sometimes a victim is frightened to leave because they fear for their life since an abuser will threaten to harm them or kill them. Then there are the abusers who have complete control over the finances and refuse to give their victim access to the money so the victim can’t economically support themselves and the children. There are also circumstances where a victim is trying to divorce their abuser and in a desperate attempt to keep control of the relationship, they convince the victim they will lose custody of their…