Falling In Love With A Polyamorous Man Helped Me Become Chill AF

We all have to write our own love stories.

Shannon Ashley
Feb 22, 2019 · 9 min read

1. We don’t have to force a relationship to go anywhere or be anything.

2. It’s okay to be in very different places.

3. Having a connection and simply having fun is enough.

4. We’re in charge of the way we feel about our own relationships.

5. Boundaries matter and we can’t blame our partner for our failure to have any.

And one day I realized I was in love with a man who could never love me back. I was living in a fairy tale.

-Jenny, Big Fish

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Shannon Ashley

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Single mama, full-time writer, ex-vangelical. It's not about being flawless, it's about being honest. Top Writer. https://onlyfans.com/shannon.ashley

Awkwardly Honest

A home for some of my most cringe-worthy tales that have been well-received on Medium.

Shannon Ashley

Written by

Single mama, full-time writer, ex-vangelical. It's not about being flawless, it's about being honest. Top Writer. https://onlyfans.com/shannon.ashley

Awkwardly Honest

A home for some of my most cringe-worthy tales that have been well-received on Medium.

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