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Why Man Needs Wife, And Woman Needs Husband?
A perspective on marriage from an unmarried man.
Today was supposed to be the day. But Allah has a better plan for us. Malaysia was on lockdown and our marriage had to be postponed.
Under the grey clouds of Saturday morning, I’m called to express what marriage means to me. To be honest, I’m hesitant to talk about this topic. It’s something I have not experienced myself.
But anyway, this is an article that explains a personal mindset regarding marriage, from the perspective of an unmarried man.
What is marriage in one word? Sacrifice.
What is marriage in two words? Your Children.
What is marriage in three words? I Don’t Know.
Marriage is About Sacrifice
I’ve always wondered, do you lose your personality long after you get married or do you remain the same? And if you do change into someone new, isn’t that kind of sad?
Again and again, I find myself looking at the old photo of me and say, “I miss that little devil.” I’m sure I’ll say the same thing a few years down the road.
I think change is inevitable. But the word change is a bit pessimistic. Let’s replace it with develop. Marriage is about…
