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My Kids Judged Me For Walking Away From Church

And then I judged my kid when he did

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Four years ago on Easter Sunday, I quit going to church.

Church is a hard space for me to be in because it dials up so much pain. I have many layers, triggers, and pain points, making it hard to enter a place that does that to me.




Thoughts on applying a 2000 year old religion to 21st Century life

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Judy Hansen

Judy Hansen

Writer, blogger, a burr in the saddle of lousy theology. Bad Theology costs lives. Author of Eight Biblical Women Who Changed the World.

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