Backyard Church
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Backyard Church

When Forgiveness Doesn’t Make Sense

A pastor refuses to let go

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Art by Josue Sanchez

(Trigger Warning: vulnerable account on bullying and forgiveness)

I’m going to tell you the story of how I was bullied at church and school throughout my entire life. Then, I’ll explain why forgiving my bullies doesn’t make sense. Finally, I’ll go through the process of letting the past go.




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Josué Sánchez

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I rather be excluded for who I include, than included for who I exclude // co-founder of

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