It’s Oddly Hard for Me to Recognize Faces

Can you relate to any of this?

Sieran Lane
Badform
Published in
6 min readNov 17, 2022

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Our psychology professor showed us a video about a woman who had trouble recognizing faces.

Her disability made it hard to maintain relationships with other people. It sounded like a nightmare. I felt so sad for her that I teared up.

Her condition was called prosopagnosia.

So imagine how stunned I was when the clip ended, and my classmates burst into laughter!

“BBC shows are so melodramatic,” they said. My prof agreed with a smile.

What the hell? How could my classmates be so callous? No matter how much the BBC dramatizes things, what the woman went through was still real.

Prosopagnosia? What Prosopagnosia?

I never thought I could have this condition, though, since I could recognize my friends’ faces. Right?

My friends Brittany and Daniel were my lunch buddies in my undergrad. I saw them twice a week.

One day, Brittany had her glasses off.

When I got to the table where we usually sat for lunch, I saw a stranger next to Daniel. I wanted to be friendly, so I held out my hand to her. “Hi, what’s your name?”

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Sieran Lane
Badform

A queer trans writer and therapist. I help fiction writers complete their novels. Let's connect! https://sieranlane.ghost.io