Diverse Perspectives Amongst My Circle of Friends

Keriki Suber, MBA, MSW
Balance and Beyond
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2 min readJan 21, 2024
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As I navigate through life, I realize that my friends and I, despite our shared laughter and camaraderie, harbor unique lenses through which we view the world. This diversity in perspectives has become a cornerstone of our friendships, shaping our conversations, challenging our assumptions, and ultimately binding us together lovingly.

I’m so glad that my friend group has various perspectives on many different subjects. We are not all the same. I imagine that it would be pretty dull if we all had the same views and agreed with everything we all said all the time. You wouldn’t need to talk to each other because you wouldn’t need anyone else’s opinions. Differing opinions matter for so many reasons. There’s a few that I thought of below.

A diverse perspective encourages critical thinking; I am not the critical thinker in my friend group. My fiancé and my best friend are. They challenge me to go deeper in thought than I care to go. Instead of surface-level thinking, I am encouraged to be analytical and explore options outside my usual range of thinking.

A diverse perspective contributes to a well-rounded understanding of complex issues. I have someone in my friend group who understands real estate well, another who researches all things finance daily, a few friends who graduated from seminary, and many others. Often, I have questions, and of course, I google, but sometimes first-hand experiences are more exciting and insightful.

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A diverse perspective promotes creativity. They help you develop ideas or solutions to problems you would otherwise have encountered without them. Sometimes, my friends and I have brainstorming sessions where we present a problem and then rapid-fire solutions to the problem until we dwindle to one solution to the problem. It helps not having to do this by yourself.

A diverse perspective fosters a sense of empathy and tolerance. This is essential for building an inclusive society. Having differing political views, gender identities, religious beliefs, etc., contributes to understanding and respect among different groups. You can disagree on a topic without being discourteous to each other.

In embracing the differing perspectives within my circle, I’ve considered the beauty that arises when differences unite. Our varied perspectives serve as stimuli for growth, fostering a passionate environment where learning is continuous and understanding flourishes. So, applaud the richness that comes with friends who see the world differently; it is in this diversity that our bonds are strengthened.

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Keriki Suber, MBA, MSW
Balance and Beyond

Published author. "Exploring personal growth, faith, mental wellness, fitness, mindfulness, and minimalism. 🌿 #WellnessJourney"