Friendship- True Friend is a Gem. If God Blessed You to have Someone, never lose it.
How did I realize the worth of my special friend?
How you define your friendship?
Do all friends have the same space in your life?
I am not a storyteller personality but a thought came to my mind to share my authentic story of a friendship. Every one has a hectic life schedule and even wanna spend time with family or friends who are actually on our Priority list. In today's era, no one has time for anyone, as we cannot find time for ourselves. Even If someone still concerns about your life with selfless thought; such friendship must get valued.
“True friends are those who came into your life, saw the most negative part of you, but are not ready to leave you, no matter how contagious you are to them.”
― Michael Bassey Johnson, The Infinity Sign
As we grow, we are meeting new persons and making new friends. Each friend has a different place and a friend in need is a friend indeed. I don't know how others prioritise their friend list, but I always give priority to deserving ones. I am thankful to God to bless me with loyal friends.
Undoubtedly, I have a great friend circle but some of them are those with whom I’m in touch regular basis. No matter whatever be the circumstances; how far we are by distance; how busy our lives but always feel the bond of each other.
I am talking here about genuine friendship. Sometimes, we met outstanding personalities by chance and only a single meet creates a wonderful feeling of a true friendship bond.
I am here talking about my special friend whom I met at my workplace. Even Without meeting frequently, we both stand for each other and share all updates of our life. I am not sharing here how I met him but sharing an instance that creates a memorable outing. Sometimes we value a person because of one situation and the same happens with me.
So Let's dive into that glorious moment that actually changed my life a lot.
An amazing vacation
I was going through bad times in my life when I met him and as a genuine soul; he supports me as a friend, companion and crime partner. I am amongst them who believes that there can be a great bond between a male and a female whether society treats it well.
There was my bestie marriage and sudden breakouts happened in my life simultaneously. I'm not in a state where I can manage my work and my personal life because of the emotional disturbance. Being a female, I never get a chance for outstation trips earlier, but somehow he helped me to convince my family. I am not in a mood to take off from my work due to work pressure but he forced me to manage the leave from work and life for 3 To–4days and take a quick break. As I was in such a mental trauma that I cannot focus anywhere.
After understanding that He wants to help me come out from trauma, but it will be possible only when I help myself. I skipped my bestie wedding and somehow leave from work and we are ready to trip along with two friends of his.
He not only sponsors my trip but also said that in the upcoming days you need to live as a flying bird and just forget everything else from your past or present. Just live the moment with your unique style.
The 4-day trip is not only the first trip with my friends but also a kick start to my new life. We spent a superb time; enjoy nature at the beach, clubbing, cruise fun, etc. As we planned to feel the best in those times, realise my real value and regain my originality, which was hidden somewhere because of that trauma.
Bottom line
I am not praising him instead I wanna suggest that you value your genuine friends, sometimes they take a place in your life like your own family. We all know that no one's life is perfect; it's full of dreams and failures. If we found an individual amongst our relatives, friends, or acquaintances. Always give them the priority they deserve.
It does not mandate that there must be a love relationship for a partner. A genuine friend can be anyone who just found that one for you and start valuing them. It's very easy to come out of any relationship but its most difficult to have a beautiful soul who always realises you that don't worry “I am here for you”
Please mention in the comments If you also have a special friend in your life and If not try to find them. Follow me if you are a reader who loves relationship content.
Happy Reading
-Ashmeen Kaur
