Love Across Miles: A Mother’s Journey of Longing and Support

Jassila Sikkandar
Be Open
Published in
3 min readMay 9, 2024

In the vast expanse of this world, there exists a bond that transcends distance, time, and space — the unbreakable tie between a mother and her daughter.

It’s a connection woven with threads of love, sacrifice, and unwavering support.

Yet, as I sit here, thousands of miles away from my daughter, I can’t help but feel the ache in my heart, the longing for her presence, and the emptiness that lingers in her absence.

My daughter, my pride and joy, is out there in another part of the world, chasing her dreams with relentless determination.

She’s on a journey to become a doctor, to make a difference in the lives of others, to carve out her path in this vast tapestry of life.

And while I couldn’t be prouder of her achievements and her courage to pursue her passions, there’s a part of me that yearns for her to be by my side, to share in the simple moments of everyday life, to laugh, to cry, to simply be together.

As a mother, my instinct is to protect, to nurture, to shield my child from any harm or pain.

But I’ve come to realize that sometimes, the greatest act of love is in letting go, in allowing them to spread their wings and soar, even if it means they fly far away from the nest.

It’s a bittersweet realization, knowing that my daughter’s happiness and fulfillment lie in pursuing her dreams, even if it means sacrificing our daily togetherness.

Love and dreams — two powerful forces that often find themselves at odds with each other. Yet, in this delicate dance between the heart and the soul, there’s a beauty that emerges — a harmony that speaks to the depth of our connections and the resilience of our spirits.

For as much as I miss my daughter’s physical presence, I find solace in knowing that our bond transcends mere proximity, that our love knows no boundaries.

So, how does a mother navigate this labyrinth of emotions, this balancing act between love and dreams?

With grace, with faith, with an unwavering belief in the power of love to guide us through even the darkest of nights.

It’s about finding strength in vulnerability, finding courage in the face of uncertainty, and finding peace in knowing that our love will always be a beacon of light, guiding us back to each other, no matter how far apart we may be.

As I sit here, reminiscing about the memories we’ve shared, the laughter, the tears, the moments that have shaped us into who we are today, I am filled with a profound sense of gratitude — for the gift of motherhood, for the privilege of witnessing my daughter’s journey unfold, and for the boundless love that binds us together, across miles and oceans.

And so, I send my love out into the universe, like a gentle whisper on the wind, carrying my hopes, my dreams, and my prayers for my daughter’s wellbeing and success.

For in the end, it is love that sustains us, love that empowers us, love that reminds us that no matter where life may take us, we are never truly alone.

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Jassila Sikkandar
Be Open

A mom, an entrepreneur, an author, nature lover,sky gazer. Above all a dreamer, envisioning a future of love, success, and meaningful experiences.