That’s the way they are; it’s the most obvious excuse parents use for their children.
That’s the way we are; it’s the excuse they use for themselves.
Therefore?
If you're hurt, it's better that you change; it's better that you don't look for excuses but work to improve yourself.
Unfortunately, we live in times of the obvious, where everything is acceptable, even mediocrity, even turning your face the other way when there is violence, thinking that it will never happen to you.
Idiocies spreaded by idiots who don't have the courage to make choices.
Parenting is not a job to do in the time left after work and leisure.
Raising a person involves time and responsibility, a great deal of responsibility as well as a clear separation of roles. The educator cannot be a friend, may be a supporter, but the children must take on their responsibilities because growing up means this and nothing else; children do not belong to their parents and must make their own decisions, avoiding delegating them to their parents.
Instead, they grow up in cotton wool, and when they come face to face with the world, they collapse in fits of anxiety.
The fault is not theirs but that of their immature parents, who did not prepare them for life, always apologizing that they are like that.