“The Deep Dive Dilemma: Navigating the Depths of Understanding in a Shallow World”

Jassila Sikkandar
Be Open
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2 min readMay 18, 2024

Today, let’s dive into a dilemma that many of us introspective souls grapple with — the constant struggle of swimming in the ocean of profound thoughts while others are casually splashing around in the kiddie pool of superficiality. I call it the “Deep Dive Dilemma,” and trust me, you’re not alone in this one.

You see, it’s like we’re equipped with philosophical scuba gear, exploring the intricacies of existence, the meaning of life, and the beauty of profound emotions. But here’s the kicker — not everyone’s got the same gear. Some are just chilling on the surface with their floaties on, blissfully unaware of the abyss beneath.

So, why is this our tragedy? Well, it’s not that we want to be the deep-sea guides for everyone else (although that would be kind of cool), but the real issue is the lack of a reciprocal understanding. We get it — the struggle is real. We understand their love for simplicity and light-hearted banter, but do they get our fascination with the complexities of the human experience?

It’s like being fluent in a language that others struggle to comprehend. We’re articulating our thoughts, pouring our hearts into conversations, and yet, it feels like we’re speaking an alien tongue. It’s not that we’re trying to be cryptic or pretentious; it’s just that our emotional and intellectual vocabulary is a bit more extensive.

But here’s the silver lining in this sea of disparity — it’s okay. In fact, it’s more than okay; it’s our unique strength. Our ability to feel and think deeply is a superpower that adds layers to our existence. It’s the spice in the soup of life, the jazz in the melody of our days.

So, what can we do about it? Embrace it. Celebrate the fact that you’re a deep thinker in a world that sometimes prefers the shallows. Connect with like-minded souls who revel in the depths, engage in meaningful conversations that make your soul dance, and let the others enjoy their shallow waters. After all, variety is the spice of life.

In the end, it’s our tragedy and our triumph. We might not make everyone dive into the profound with us, but oh, the beauty of finding those rare souls who are willing to take the plunge. So, fellow deep thinkers, keep swimming, keep pondering, and revel in the depth of your understanding. After all, it’s what makes you, well, you.

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Jassila Sikkandar
Be Open

A mom, an entrepreneur, an author, nature lover,sky gazer. Above all a dreamer, envisioning a future of love, success, and meaningful experiences.