“The Power of Gentle Strength”

Jassila Sikkandar
Be Open
Published in
2 min readApr 24, 2024

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Have you ever pondered the profound strength found in gentleness? In a world where hustle culture reigns supreme and the loudest voices seem to prevail, there’s a quiet force that often goes unnoticed — the strength of gentleness.

Let’s dive into this philosophical gem: “Nothing is won by force.” This simple yet profound statement carries the weight of centuries of wisdom. It’s a reminder that true victories aren’t achieved through brute force but through the elegance of gentle persuasion, understanding, and empathy.

Choosing to be gentle isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a testament to inner strength. It’s about handling situations with grace, using words that heal rather than wound, and approaching conflicts with a desire for resolution rather than domination.

Picture this-raising our voices only in praise. Imagine a world where our words lift others up, where our vocal strength is used to celebrate achievements, acknowledge efforts, and spread positivity. How different would our interactions be if we spoke from a place of kindness and appreciation?

And about clenching fists — how about using them only for prayer? It’s a beautiful metaphor, isn’t it? Instead of letting anger or frustration dictate our actions, channeling that energy into prayer, meditation, or introspection can be incredibly empowering.

It’s a way of acknowledging our emotions while choosing a path of peace and understanding.

Then comes the idea of making demands — only of oneself. It’s not about imposing expectations on others; it’s about setting high standards for ourselves.

Demanding growth, self-improvement, and accountability from within. It’s the ultimate act of self-responsibility and self-care.

In a world that often glorifies aggression and forcefulness, embracing gentleness might seem counterintuitive.

But therein lies its power. It’s a silent strength that influences without overpowering, guides without dictating, and empowers without suppressing.

So, let’s challenge the status quo. Let’s dare to be gentle warriors, wielding the power of compassion, empathy, and understanding.

Let’s build a world where gentle strength reigns supreme — a world where force bows down to the subtle might of compassion and grace.

In the end, it’s not about being loud; it’s about being impactful. It’s not about force; it’s about finesse.

It’s not about demands; it’s about self-discipline. And it all begins with the choice to embrace gentleness.

What are your thoughts on this philosophy?

How do you practice gentle strength in your life?

Let’s keep this conversation going!

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Jassila Sikkandar
Be Open

A mom, an entrepreneur, an author, nature lover,sky gazer. Above all a dreamer, envisioning a future of love, success, and meaningful experiences.