The Salary Dance: A CEO’s Guide to Navigating Compensation Conversations

Mastering the art of fair negotiations and retaining top talent

Vladyslav Bilotserkovskyi
Be Open
3 min readSep 21, 2024

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As the CEO of Lemmi, a startup dedicated to revolutionizing how people find and secure their dream jobs, I’ve been on both sides of the salary negotiation table. I’ve sweated through interviews as a job seeker and sat across from eager candidates as an employer. Today, I want to share some insights that might change how you approach your next salary discussion.

The Dreaded Question

We’ve all been there. The interview is going well, you’re building rapport, and then it hits you like a ton of bricks: “What are your salary expectations?” Suddenly, your palms are sweaty, your mind goes blank, and you’re transported back to high school algebra class, desperately trying to solve for X. But here’s a secret: this question doesn’t have to be your kryptonite. In fact, with the right approach, it can be your opportunity to shine.

The Golden Rule of Salary Negotiation

If there’s one thing I’ve learned in my years of building Lemmi and advising countless job seekers, it’s this: never be the first to name a number. It’s like a game of chicken, and trust me, you want the company to blink first. Why? Because if you throw out a number that’s too low, you might be leaving money on the table. Conversely, go too high, and you might price yourself out of an opportunity before you can showcase your value.

So, what do you do when faced with the salary question? Here are a few tactics I’ve seen work wonders:

  1. The Reversal: “Before I give you a number, could you please provide me with the salary range for this position?”
  2. The Polite Stall: “I’m sure your company has a fair and competitive compensation structure. I’d be more comfortable discussing salary once we’ve determined this is the right opportunity for both of us.”
  3. The Research Approach: “Based on my research and experience, I believe a salary in the range of X to Y would be appropriate. How does that align with your compensation structure?”

The Company’s Playbook

Now, let me let you in on a little secret from the other side of the table. Companies often use tactics to try and get you to accept a lower offer. They might create a sense of urgency, offer time-limited incentives, or even appeal to your emotions by emphasizing the impact you could make. As the CEO of Lemmi, I’ve made it our mission to level the playing field. We believe in transparency and fairness in the job market. We provide tools and resources to help job seekers understand their worth and negotiate effectively.

The Power of Preparation

One of the most powerful tools in your arsenal is preparation. Do your homework before entering that interview, or hop on that Zoom call. Use salary comparison tools, talk to people in your industry, and understand the market rate for your skills and experience. At Lemmi, we’ve seen countless success stories from job seekers who walked into negotiations armed with data and confidence. They weren’t just guessing at their worth — they knew it.

Beyond the Numbers

Remember, salary is just one piece of the compensation puzzle. Don’t be afraid to negotiate on other aspects of the package. More vacation days, flexible working hours, and professional development opportunities can all add significant value to your overall compensation.

A Personal Anecdote

I’ll never forget my salary negotiation when I started in tech. I was so nervous that I blurted out a number way below market rate. The hiring manager actually paused and said, “Are you sure about that? We were prepared to offer more.”

That experience taught me two valuable lessons:

  1. Always do your research
  2. Companies worth working for want to pay you fairly.

At Lemmi, we’re working towards a future where salary discussions are more transparent, fair, and less anxiety-inducing. We believe that everyone wins when employers and employees have access to accurate market data and negotiation tools. Remember, until we reach that utopia, your skills, experience, and potential have value. Don’t be afraid to advocate for yourself. Be prepared, be confident, and not be the first to name a number. The next time you’re faced with the salary question, take a deep breath. Remember, it’s not just about getting a job — it’s about getting the compensation you deserve.

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Vladyslav Bilotserkovskyi
Be Open

I'm an entrepreneur and an engineering practices/process consultant. Founder of Lemmi - your job search toolset that gets you noticed and saves you time.