Ditch the Discomfort of Goodbye

Parting is a sweet sorrow.

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Why is ‘Goodbye’ such a lone word? It’s marked by frustation, tears, abuses, crumpled letters, photographs thrown to trash, flowers plucked out of personal diaries, dewy eyes, choked-up emotions, and distasteful moments.

The sensation of a sour bruise or a haunting nightmare sticks around your soul, and you feel nowhere after losing someone.

You may have witnessed many unpredictable and unpleasant farewells in your life, as have I.

Isn’t it embarrassing that out of emotions and heartaches, most people turn disrespectful? They hurl stones of blame, start abhorring someone who was once the apple of their eye and spill the secrets and weaknesses of a once-upon-a-time friend or a beloved one.

Humans deserve driplets of respect. Our emotional breakdown should not let us walk over basic boundaries of others’ self-esteem and integrity .It’s okay to change paths, but in a humane way. To hold onto the lessons learned with empathy for ourselves and sympathy for the one who left deliberately or mistakenly or as a matter of fate .