Becoming You
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Becoming You

From Codependent Chameleon to Selfhood: Individuation

By John Hain

When we first met, I told my husband I was very adaptable. I didn’t realize the price of being a chameleon until I started recovery and my journey of individuation. By then I was dead inside. I’d spent years adapting to abuse and belittling that I’d absorbed. I was detached from my feelings and needs, and passion eluded me.

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Darlene Lancer

Darlene Lancer

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