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I Contacted My Narcissist Ex
I cried for two days straight with his response
It has been over a year and a half since my last breakup. I finally moved on last October.
You know that feeling when it finally happens, the shift, the shift of freedom and not caring anymore about them, the conversations in your head begin to fade, and the wondering what happened or how they are doing seizes to exist anymore.
I was excited that I had finally met someone new. As I sat at one of the more prestigious restaurants in the city for my birthday, a tall, handsome server approached me while I was sitting with my girlfriend as we sipped our last cocktail for the evening when he began flirting with me.
Although I've been on a few dates after my breakup, I haven't felt that surge of energy of knowing this is the kind of connection I wanted to feel with someone.
His energy and authenticity made me want to know more, and his charismatic and charming personality was similar to mine.
As the weeks flew by, I gathered more information about this possible dating option from mutual acquaintances. All of them mentioned he was a solid guy, but unfortunately, he had just gotten out of a serious relationship that was traumatic for him.