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Men Grow to Love You More in Your Absence Part 2
Have you ever been on a vacation or a long weekend getaway with your husband or boyfriend that went amazingly well? You felt as close and emotionally intimate as ever, and your relationship feels stronger. You feel bonded closer together and you want to continue this momentum in your relationship.
Once you get home from your trip however, things seem different. You went to continue that closeness and connection, spending more time together, but your husband/boyfriend seems like they can’t wait to get away from you. You wonder….what’s happening here? Did he not enjoy all of the wonderful quality time we spent together? Is he now tired of me and doesn’t want to be with me anymore? You might even start to get worried and anxious. You ruminate and your mind tries ever so hard to replay the details of your time together and what went wrong.
No one has to tell you that men and women are so different, we just are made that way. Physically, mentally, emotionally. How we think, how we feel, how our brains and minds work, how we communicate, really in every way. So it should be a surprise to no one, that the way we fall in love and also grow in love is completely different too.
For women, most of us are seekers of connection and communication. We like a lot of communication and to be in regular contact with the one that…
