Men, Here’s How You Can Tell If You’re With An Insecure Girl (Part 1)

You might think it’s a good idea to date her, but trust me, you don’t want this.

Ossiana Tepfenhart
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As a person who worked as a professional pickup artist assistant with my homie Michael Chief, I have seen every piece of dating advice given to men. This is especially true about unethical pickup techniques — such as Red Pill advice.

Traditionally, the Red Pill tells men that they need to drop a girl’s self-esteem to get laid. They encourage men to get the girls they want to act insecure, and it does work at first.

However, insecurity does not bode well for a long-term relationship. Making someone purposefully insecure is both abusive and traumatizing for the victim. And victims? They act out.

Men who listen to the manosphere advice of encouraging insecurity often find out that insecure women are toxic partners. They find it out the hard way — either by a breakup, cheating, domestic violence, or something way worse.

Guys, you do not want an insecure woman. You don’t want to encourage women to be insecure, either. When you do this, you’re creating a relationship that will turn toxic sooner rather than later.

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Ossiana Tepfenhart
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I’m a weirdo who loves to write. Deal with it. Available for hire. Instagram @ossiana.makes.content