This Is What Dating Coaches Don’t Tell You About Abundance

Shannon Vaughn
BELOVED
Published in
3 min readSep 22, 2021

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But I will

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One of the best things for me growing up in the 80’s besides the music was movies. Current day films couldn’t compete with Back to the Future, Ghostbusters, The Terminator, and countless others.

Of them all Revenge of the Nerds was one of my favorites. The movie is about college geeks who bounce back after having been evicted from their dorm by an opposing fraternity, to ridicule them and win over some of the prettiest most popular girls on campus, who otherwise would never date them.

Some Youtube dating coaches today seem to be making content for those same type guys. Videos about how to think abundantly in dating, how to manipulate, and so forth.

I’ve heard one Youtuber refer to the men who indulge in these type videos as Revenge of the Lames.

LOL.

Lame or not, there’s a few things I feel some dating coaches are leaving out:

There’s levels to this

Low quality and average are everywhere. From generic to name brand labels in grocery stores to sports competitions regardless of gender. There are more average to good products than excellent to superior.

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