How To Find A Mentor: 3 Strategies For Finding An Expert To Learn From

Nicolas Cole
Better Advice
Published in
5 min readNov 16, 2020

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I have been extremely fortunate to have attracted some phenomenal mentors in my life.

In fact, just about every success or skill set I have acquired has been the result of a mentor.

Whether it was classical piano, video games, bodybuilding, music, marketing and advertising, I learned at a very young age that learning from a mentor speeds up the learning process ten fold.

And not only does it speed it up, but it teaches you nuances about the craft in a way that is nearly impossible to learn in a more formal setting, like school.

Especially in business and entrepreneurship, it seems everyone is looking for “a mentor.”

To be honest, I don’t think most people even know what a mentor really is, let alone what to look for in a mentor — so let’s start there.

A mentor is NOT someone who gives you all the answers.

In fact, a true mentor is quite literally the opposite of that.

You don’t learn by being given “the answers.” You learn by being given the space to discover the answers for yourself.

The mentor’s job is to help give

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Nicolas Cole
Better Advice

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