How To Co-Parent Effectively After a Divorce

A 5-point parenting plan and Google Docs finally made us better parents to our twin boys

Dad and two sons playing with toys
Dad and two sons playing with toys
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The Breakdown

Two parents, two different paths

Co-Parenting — What NOT To Do

How We Changed Our Communication — The 5 Point Vision Statement

1. Move past the hate

2. Implement a business relationship

3. Say YES more

4. Never criticize

5. Children come first, second, and third

Author’s parenting plan
Author’s parenting plan
Our brief, succinct plan. Source: Author

The First Test of the New Plan

Our Co-Parenting Bible

Author’s Google doc
Author’s Google doc
Source: Author Google Doc

Two Parents, One Path to Success

An example of success

Our pinnacle of success

Key Factors in Our Success

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