4 Stages of life that uncover self-mastery:

Stages that light on your life’s paramountcy:

Life can be a choice if we face most shit with a brave heart. Every person has it’s own mental age that defines where is he going? You can choose your path by yourself or, if you want to avoid it, others do it for yourself.

My teacher told me when I was in 10th Grade with the hilarious tone, “Life is on the mission to press you with your problems, it’s up to you to sharpen your sword before monsters of problems circle you.”

I surprise my teacher tones, but now I can feel it in my guts.

Life put an experiment in front of us and allow us to bear the pain of doubts, efforts and rejections. If somehow by luck, or blueprint of any winner, or constant efforts in the time of no hope, We do it. Then, the clouds of redemption appear to feed the plant of our success.

The life process that moves from one stage to another has 4 Stages;

1.Mimicking:

It’s the phase where we copy the others to develop our identity, like learning behaviour of talking, reacting after winning or losing.

In our life, we by and large copy other stuff and show it like it’s our brand new creation. We experience this stage clearly in our childhood. When we try to please or impress others through our acts, we consciously or unconsciously plagiarise various stuff from people in your environment.

The stage demands approval from others to achieve a certain level. Like our college degrees, school speech prize and mention previous experience in your resume for a job.

In this stage, you copy and get a title of acceptance or encouragement from your family, friends and society.

2.Exploration:

The second stage is about to explore what exactly you want from life? What makes you unique from rest? Young adults move from one field and others, looking for a perfect alignment of their natural talents and nature of the job. Youth travel from one place to another and meet new strange people to figure out the next level of life.

The plus point of exploration is you can see the various possibilities, but contrastingly you’ve no stability in your achievements.

You move or incline towards the natural calling that leads you towards numerous fields. You taste the working routine, pros and cons, fame or money of each and try to figure out your dream job.

3.Commitment:

A stage of commitment arrives when you realize that every field demands your lot of energy and time to become yours. You choose your best choice and dive into the river of routine.

The people of middle and late 20s do it. They leave the ho-hum of the crowd and committed towards a field.

The commitment field blesses you the stability, a clear path of your future. The excitement of opportunities in every job fades or replace with the thrill of tiny achievements.

You may make your 5 or 10 Year long term project to build the empire that secures and feed you. It is a point where you see yourself as an expert of your dream work with a commitment to stick with it no matter what.

4.Legacy:

After getting cheers from others about your work, it’s time to conserve your work and make it immortal or at least live longer.

At the legacy level, you achieve your dreams of a life. That may be a big house, a personal car or a healthy relationship. People in their late 30s often start their legacy phase.

You already have respect for a group of people, you’re on a mission to get your extreme level in your expertise, like becoming a Picasso in painting.

The legacy level demands your last blood to win the fight of your battle. All masterpiece comes into being at the legacy level.

Conditions For 4 Stages:

We’re not always at the same level. We shift throughout from one place to another. Once we achieve all 4 Levels of specific work, we slip back to find more or correct ourselves.

When we are at a stage, we cant understand others on various stages. These 4 Stages knowhow make it easy to understand each other.