The Secret Nobody Wants You to Know About Happiness

A Soulful Journey from my native — Madurai, India

Pavin
Betterism
Published in
3 min readApr 2, 2024

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In the bustling market streets of Madurai, where the scent of jasmine flowers and the rhythm of classical music intertwine, I embarked on a quest for happiness. It wasn’t just a fleeting desire; it was a relentless pursuit that seemed to consume every fiber of my being.

Like many, I believed happiness was nestled within external achievements and validations. Little did I know, the key to true happiness resided within the depths of my own soul.

My journey towards uncovering this elusive secret began on a scorching afternoon, seeking solace from the blistering heat in the cool confines of a local tea shop. Amidst the clinking of stainless steel cups and the aroma of freshly brewed filter coffee, I found myself reflecting on the fleeting moments of joy I had encountered — the accolades, the material possessions, the transient triumphs. Yet, an undeniable sense of emptiness persisted within me.

It was during this introspective moment that I encountered an elderly gentleman seated across from me. His eyes shimmered with a wisdom that transcended time, and his serene smile radiated a sense of inner peace that stirred something deep within my soul. Intrigued, I engaged him in conversation, We covered a wide range of topics during our conversation, from Madurai cuisine to cinema to personal anecdotes. I’d like to highlight one insightful saying that he shared with me,,,,

and what he shared with me that day transformed my perspective forever.

“Dear one,” he began, his voice gentle yet resolute,

“happiness isn’t an elusive destination to be sought in the external world. It resides within you, patiently awaiting discovery.”

His words resonated within the chambers of my heart, igniting a spark of curiosity and hope.

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He went on to elucidate that true happiness isn’t contingent upon external circumstances or material possessions. Instead, it emanates from within — a profound sense of contentment and fulfillment that transcends the transient pleasures of the outside world. As he spoke, I realized that I had been searching for happiness in all the wrong places, looking outward when the treasure lay within.

“Happiness is not at the end of the journey, but along the way.”

In the days that ensued, I embarked on a soul-stirring journey of self-discovery, delving deep into the recesses of my own consciousness. I unearthed forgotten passions and rekindled the flame of simple joys that had long been extinguished by the clamor of modern life.

I began to cultivate gratitude for the blessings that enveloped me — the laughter of loved ones, the aroma of home-cooked meals, and the gentle embrace of a warm breeze.

With each passing day, a profound transformation unfurled within me. The insatiable hunger for external validation gradually waned, replaced by a tranquil acceptance of the present moment. I no longer sought happiness in the external world; instead, I found it nestled within the sacred sanctuary of my own being, awaiting recognition and embrace.

“The treasure you seek lies within the depths of your own heart.”

As I look back upon my journey, tears of gratitude mingle with the laughter of newfound joy. The secret to happiness was never truly concealed; it merely awaited discovery amidst the tapestry of everyday existence. True happiness is not a distant shore to be reached; it is a gentle current that flows within, guiding us home to ourselves.

May these content and words serve as a guiding light for all who embark on the sacred quest for happiness, illuminating the path towards inner fulfillment and eternal joy.

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