TENNIS AND ME

How Tennis Shapes My Life Off Court

A few principles anchor me and provide a healthier outlook

Jill Ebstein
Beyond the Scoreboard
5 min readMay 2, 2024

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Tennis ball on tennis court balanced on post.
Photo by Matthias David on Unsplash

Just to be clear, tennis is not my only source of wisdom when life gets tough.

There’s my family. I was blessed with two devoted parents of sound minds and a bunch of loyal siblings. When I got older, I realized, as Mark Twain said upon turning 21, that it was astonishing how much his dad had learned. For me, I’d substitute “parents.”

Their truths are now surrounded by a halo that I imagine.

There is also my faith, which brings me community, spirituality, and hope.

And then, there is tennis.

Yes, tennis.

For many, tennis is a game with a yellow ball, some racquets, and a net.

It is all of that, but for me, it’s much, much more.

Let’s start with the fact that I picked up a racket at the ripe age of 36.

I didn’t look like I belonged in court.

Because I didn’t.

I wore huge, baggy fuchsia shorts — I hadn’t lost all my pregnancy weight yet — with gargantuan pockets that could store many, many balls that I’d end up chasing all over the court.

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Jill Ebstein
Beyond the Scoreboard

I’m about dogs, our lovable and peculiar families, business, and writing in a wide lane, including fiction. I’m a positivity washer too. www.jillebstein.com