5 Clues to Spot a ‘Christian’ Narcissist
Wolves in Sheep’s Clothing: Unmasking the Predators in Our Pews
The enemy isn’t just at the gates — he’s sitting in our sanctuaries, singing our hymns, and quoting our scriptures. I’m talking about the Christian narcissist, a creature so insidious it makes the Pharisees look like amateurs.
You’ve seen them. Maybe you’ve even been burned by one. It’s time to rip off the mask and expose these wolves for what they are. Here are five red flags that’ll help you spot a ‘Christian’ narcissist faster than you can say “Amen.”
1. They’re Always the Hero of God’s Story
Normal Christians understand they’re supporting characters in God’s grand narrative. But a narcissist? They think they’re the star of the show, with Jesus as their personal sidekick. Every sermon, every prayer meeting becomes their stage. If they’re not center stage in a testimony, they’re not interested.
2. Selective Scripture Syndrome
Watch how they wield the Word. A true believer approaches scripture with humility, letting it shape them. A narcissist treats the Bible like a buffet, cherry-picking verses that suit their agenda while conveniently ignoring anything that might convict them. “Judge not” suddenly doesn’t apply when they’re the ones doing the judging.
3. Miracle Monopoly
Got a testimony? They’ve got a bigger one. Saw God move? They’ve seen Him move mountains. A narcissist can’t stand anyone else experiencing God’s power. They’ll hijack prayer meetings, interrupt testimonies, and twist every conversation to showcase their supposedly superior spiritual experiences.
4. The Anointing of Exceptionalism
“God told me” becomes their favorite phrase, wielded like a weapon to silence dissent and elevate their status. They’re not just a believer; they’re God’s special messenger, uniquely anointed above all others. Disagree with them? You’re disagreeing with God Himself, according to their warped logic.
5. Repentance Allergy
Here’s the kicker: a Christian narcissist is allergic to genuine repentance. They might put on a show of contrition when cornered, but watch closely. There’s always a “but,” always a justification, always a way to shift blame. True humility and heartfelt repentance are as foreign to them as sacrificial love.
Wake up, Church! These wolves aren’t just hurting individuals; they’re poisoning entire congregations. They’re turning the bride of Christ into a platform for their ego, and it’s high time we called them out.
Remember, Jesus himself warned us: “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves” (Matthew 7:15). It’s not unloving to be discerning. It’s not judgmental to protect the flock.
So, the next time you spot these red flags, don’t ignore them. Pray for wisdom, seek counsel, and be prepared to stand firm against the narcissist’s manipulation. Our faith is too precious, our God too holy, to let these impostors run unchecked.
The battle for the soul of the Church is on. Will you stand and fight, or roll over for the wolves?
