“Forgive me. This is my favorite sin: despair — / whose love I celebrate with wine and prayer.”

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Flirty messages don’t mean a thing

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A smiling brunette in a checked shirt with a bow
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Be your own best cheerleader by taking action

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The ability to take a break shouldn’t be a privilege

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I don’t have ‘vision,’ I’ve simply made mistakes you haven’t yet made

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And yes, you can discover it yourself

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A red-haired girl in a red dress holds a bunch of red roses
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Whatever your goal, start by fixing your surroundings

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Beautiful brown woman smiling behind computer screen
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“Environment is the invisible hand that shapes human behavior.”

  • If your desk looks like a warzone, so will your mind. Chaos will invade your thoughts and sabotage your work.
  • If all your friends talk about are beer, TikTok, and Netflix, you’ll never grow.
  • If all you eat is processed and junk food, you’ll feel sluggish all day. You won’t move your legs for a walk, let alone work out.
  • If you spend your breaks watching people flex…


Big Self writers explore big questions and how to roll in tandem with the universe

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Conscious manifestations

Your mind is always going to tell you it’s 10x harder than it actually is

Being in the present moment aligns you with the divine. It aligns you with spirit and higher consciousness. (Photo: Sasin Tipchai)

Manifesting From the Ego vs Manifesting From a Conscious Place


Just don’t be determined to do it all.

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Big Self

Good mental health unlocks your purpose.

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