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An Elegant Way to Say “No”

It’s not “let me think about it”

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Saying “Yes” to someone often means saying “No” to yourself. “Yes” can make you spend time with people you don’t like, work on an extra project you don’t have time for, and pay for shit you don’t need. All while cursing yourself.

Still, most people are afraid to say “No” because it sounds rude, selfish, and disrespectful — which is, of…



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