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What Was I Thinking?

How to really screw up a first date

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Before getting married, I liked to think that I was a pretty good dater. After all, I had been doing it for years and I always figured that practice makes perfect.

I made it a habit to ask out women whenever the opportunity arose. My thinking was that if I was to get better at this, I had to keep doing it.




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