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How to Be Courageous in Loving and Being Vulnerable

An interview with Cristina Costantino — Founder of Love Squared Alcheme

Bingz Huang
Jul 22 · 11 min read
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Heart painted and photographed by Cristina Costantino

More about Cristina Costantino

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A Quick Mini Analysis of Cristina’s Chart

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Human Design chart for Cristina Costantino. Source: Genetic Matrix

Motorized Throat connected to Identity Center

Open Will Center

Defined Spleen Center

What is it like expressing deeply within your soul and feeling vulnerable about it?

How do you cope with feeling competition from others?

I don’t need to dim my light to make other people feel better about themselves. I need to shine it brightly and those who resonate will resonate with it.

What are your thoughts about the energies of blame and guilt rampant in society?

I thought I loved myself but now that I’ve healed so much and have been able to feel the true, blissful self-love that is possible…now I know that for the first 40 years of my life, I never felt true love for myself.

Can you share more about your Twin Flame love?

It also inspired me to see all of that within myself because as Twin Flames we share an energy body so we share all of the same wounding.

Because of him I was able to see all of that in myself and heal it. And I have been absolutely dedicated, committed, and inspired to heal absolutely everything that is blocking love.

Because I’ve seen it block him and block me and block our love, and I will not stop until I heal everything that is blocking our love, and I want to do that for everybody in this world.

What are your deepest fears in your business?

When I work with people — when I respond to people — I strive to do the opposite: I want to empower them, so I always give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they know themselves.

Ways to connect with Cristina

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I share stories about Gentleness to inspire fellow sensitive souls. Intuitive Healer and Human Design Specialist. https://www.bingzhuanghealer.com

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Written by

I share stories about Gentleness to inspire fellow sensitive souls. Intuitive Healer and Human Design Specialist. https://www.bingzhuanghealer.com

Bingz Healing Light

Simple healing insights and stories that inspire a gentler world. Learn how to use Human Design to realign yourself for optimal health and happiness :)

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