The following article is all about moments faced by myself when I was jobless. I experienced all of the following moments. Now I don’t blame them as I accepted them when I was jobless and took their shame.
Being Jobless needs a Great Heart to accept the shame from the people and to face the harder times.
The horrible question after education is “Did you get the job?”. To the people, job is everything. According to me, the one who got the job immediately after the education is the most unlucky fellow and he will be in the queue for elimination.
Our time will come. Just wait for it.
The following are my best moments when I was jobless.
1. Hiding from Relatives:
This is a commonly seen activity in every one’s life who completed their education and jobless. The relatives find themselves more fun by poking questions like “What is your son doing now?” , “What is your daughter doing now?”. if any one of our relative’s son got JOB then he will come to our house by carrying sweet box and gives hint to our parents about our job and being jobless. They come to show their pride and disgrace nature. Job is not an achievement to celebrate, at least for me it is not. That’s why I’ll hide from relatives. Simply, I’ll ignore them.
2. No More Parties and Functions
While studying Engineering or any other higher degree, if we attend any function then the people ask us what are we studying. We answer it with a proud by saying our UG Course. But, after completion of education being jobless and where ever we go “What are you doing now ?” follows us.
Everybody in the party will start discussing on us. It will be so embarrassing. We come here to party and to chill. But, it turns to be a round table conferences and our job would be the hot topic for them to discuss and to comment as well.
3. Loneliness ; the best friend :(
We feel very happy when we are alone than mingling with some one. Loneliness will become our next best friend. It is the only thing that don’t ask us “What are we doing now?”.
We separate the world from us when we don’t have a job. We never bother about things happening in the world. Even, in the family we talk less. We just keep quiet in the family. With out any reasons, we found ourselves out of the house.
4 . No More Pocket Money from Father
When world separates us, our beloved mother stands besides us. If we want anything, we will pass to mother and mother will send to the father. If the father passes the bill back, then happy ; if not the world war begins. When father starts scolding us and hitting on our job, we just walk away keeping our head down. We took the shame and we have to accept it.
5. Being Imposter with Friends…
Though we are screwed up, we act like we are happy and joyful. No matter what happens, we will show some highness. We appear like a masked people to our friends who fly. We talk, We eat, and We hit each other. We laugh, though we don’t sense it. We smile when they look at us. Everything we do is false.
We just be the Sorry for our friends by saying “ I can’t keep pretending any more”.
Like to hear your moments when you are jobless. If you haven’t experienced any of them then I can say you are LUCKY.
Thanks For your time.
Happy Long Life :)