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Want to Know What’s Going on in Your Teens’ Lives? Stay Up Late
If you let your teenagers’ circadian rhythms lead the way, you might learn more about what’s going on in their lives
My husband helped my 16-year-old nephew with some car trouble. The next day, he received this text from my sister:
“At 11:30 last night I heard you rescued my son.”
My nephew had only had his driver’s license for a few months when he called us in a panic. He had just noticed the flashing red light on the car’s dashboard; he was almost out of gas. He had no idea how long the gauge had been on empty and he was sitting in a parking lot, afraid to go anywhere.
My husband was sure the car could make it to the nearest gas station, which was just a quarter of a mile away. Nevertheless, he met him in the parking lot and followed him to make sure he got there okay.
At the station, it turned out my nephew didn’t have any money, so the greatest uncle in the world handed over his credit card. My nephew was relieved and grateful and offered copious thanks.
However, he didn’t tell his mother about the incident until 11:30 that night. I don’t think he waited because he was afraid of what she would say. Based on my experience raising…
