LIFE
The Living Don't Always Get Them, but the Dead Sure Do: Flowers
Men were not typically the recipients of flowers, but that's changing.
“If we could see the miracle of a single flower clearly our whole life would change.”– Buddha
Flowers are a common way to express love, appreciation, and sometimes regret. The living doesn't always receive them, but the dead sure do. Have you ever wondered why we opt to send flowers to the dead more than the living?
While some people may see flowers as a waste of money, I believe they are worth the investment. They brighten up someone's day and can also be a reminder of our time together here on earth.
While flowers may seem like a simple way to show your affection for someone, they can be much appreciated. Different flowers have different meanings, and choosing the right type of flower for the right occasion is essential.
For example, sending roses to your significant other is a romantic gesture, but sending them to a funeral is inappropriate.
If you're unsure what type of flower to send or want to make sure you're sending the right message, consult with a florist. They will be able to help you choose the perfect arrangement for your needs.
And if you're still unsure, don't worry. Many other ways exist to show love and appreciation without resorting to flowers!
Why do we gift flowers?
Flowers are a common way to express love, appreciation, and sometimes regret. The living doesn't always receive them, but the dead sure do.
Have you ever wondered why sometimes we opt to send flowers to the dead more than the living?
Flowers have been used for centuries as a symbol of love, beauty, and happiness. They are also often given gifts on special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries.
Flowers can be used in many ways to convey messages such as congratulations, thank you, or I'm sorry.
Why do we send flowers at funerals?
There are a few reasons for this. For one, flowers are a way to show love and appreciation for the person who has passed away. They are also a way to show sympathy for grieving family and friends.
Additionally, flowers can help to brighten up a funeral service and add a touch of beauty to an otherwise difficult day.
If you're planning on attending a funeral, sending flowers ahead of time is always appropriate. This way, the deceased's family will know that you're thinking of them and wishing them strength during this difficult time.
So, if you want to show your love and appreciation — or even express your sympathies — consider sending flowers. Just be sure to choose the right type of flower for the occasion! Otherwise, you might end up sending the wrong message.
Dos & Don'ts of Sending Flowers
Flowers are a great way to say, "I'm thinking of you." But what is the best way to send them?
When sending flowers, make sure you have the correct address and that it's not too late in the day.
Suppose you send flowers for a special occasion such as an anniversary or birthday. In that case, it's best to order them at least two days in advance. This gives the florist time to prepare the arrangement and ensure it arrives on time.
Suppose you're sending flowers as a sympathy gesture. In that case, sending them to the funeral home or the family's residence is appropriate. You can also send them directly to the gravesite if you wish.
When it comes to what type of flowers to send, there are no hard and fast rules. But, it's always nice to choose something meaningful for the recipient. If you're unsure what type of flower they would like, ask their friends and family for suggestions or the florist.
Roses are always a safe choice and are suitable for many occasions. Lilies are often associated with death and funerals.
“Flowers don’t tell, they show.” — Stephanie Skeem
Why is it less common to send flowers to men?
The tradition of sending flowers began in Victorian times when women were more familiar with receiving them. Men were not typically the recipients of flowers, as they were seen as a more feminine gesture.
However, this is no longer the case! In today's society, both men and women can enjoy receiving flowers.
There are many reasons someone might choose to send flowers to a man.
Perhaps you want to show appreciation for a remarkable man in your life — like your father, grandfather, or husband. Or maybe you want to show sympathy after losing a male friend or family member.
Don't be afraid to send flowers to a man for whatever reason — it's a perfect gesture in today's world!
In conclusion, flowers are a great way to show love and appreciation. Please don't wait to send flowers until someone dies; many people have never received them!
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