SELF-AWARENESS
The Role of Your Inner Voice in Your Life
Is It Your Best Friend or Your Worst Enemy?
“You must trust yourself more than you trust others. Pay attention to your inner voice — it will tell you if how and in what you are investing is right for you.” — Suze Orman
The concept of an inner voice may have originated with Plato. His work “The Republic” discussed the idea of an inner voice as a person’s conscience or moral voice.
A part of your personality (your inner voice) can be good for you. Sometimes it can support you in making the right decisions and staying on the right path, but not always.
There’s no denying that the inner voice can be a powerful force in our lives. It can guide us toward what’s best for us and help us avoid unhealthy choices. But, it can also be a source of anxiety and stress, causing us to second-guess our every move.
It can be hard to silence when your inner voice constantly nags you. You may question every decision you make, no matter how small. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, and paralyzing indecision.
What’s the Best Way to Deal With Your Inner Voice?
It’s essential to understand that your inner voice is not always correct. Just because you have a thought or feeling doesn’t mean it’s true.
Learn to listen to your inner voice without judgment. Accepting your thoughts and feelings without judging them will help you better understand yourself.
Don’t be afraid to make decisions that go against your inner voice. Sometimes is good to trust your gut and follow your heart, even if it means going against what your head is telling you.
The inner voice is a complex and often confusing part of our lives. But, by taking the time to understand it, we can learn to use it to our advantage.
After all, it’s there for a reason. It’s up to us to figure out what that reason is.
Tapping Into Our Inner Voice
There are many different ways that people can tap into their inner voice.
For some, a whisper guides them through life’s challenges. Others may hear a more booming or forceful voice that gives them clear instructions on what they should do. Some people even report seeing visions or images that help to guide their actions.
Whatever form it takes, your inner voice is always there to help you. It is your moral compass, pointing you in the right direction when you need it most.
Your inner voice is always with you, but it can be challenging to hear it over the noise of everyday life. If you’re having trouble accessing your inner voice, try some of these techniques:
- Spend time in nature: Connecting with the natural world can help to quiet the mind and allow you to listen to your inner voice more clearly.
- Meditate: Meditation is a great way to focus your attention inward and allows you to tune into your thoughts and feelings.
- Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness involves being present at the moment and observing your thoughts and feelings without judgment. This can help you better understand what your inner voice is trying to tell you.
- Keep a journal: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can help you make sense of them and may even reveal patterns you were unaware of.
- Talk to a therapist: A therapist can help you to explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe and supportive environment. This can be a great way to get in touch with your inner voice and learn how to use it to your advantage.
Getting to Know the Different Kinds of Voices in Your Head
Many different voices can be heard inside our heads. Some of these voices are helpful, while others can be harmful. Learning to distinguish between different voices is essential to making the best life choices.
- The critical voice: This voice tells us we’re not good enough, that we can’t do it, or that we’re going to fail. It’s often loud and intrusive and can be difficult to ignore.
- The compassionate voice: This is the voice that tells us we’re doing our best, that we’re worthwhile and deserving of love and respect. It’s often softer and gentler, but listening to it is just as important.
- The judging voice: This voice tells us we’re wrong, that we’re not good enough, or that we’re doing something wrong. It’s often harsh and critical and can damage our self-esteem. It’s essential to learn how to silence the judging voice so that we can make peace with ourselves.
- The guiding voice: This voice helps us make decisions, gives us direction when lost, and allows us to find our way back to ourselves. It’s usually calm and clear and can be a great source of wisdom and guidance.
- The arrogant voice: The arrogant voice is the one that loves to put us down. It tells us we’re not good enough and don’t deserve to be happy. It’s often loud and obnoxious and can be very difficult to ignore.
- The humble voice: In contrast to the arrogant voice, this voice is gentle and supportive. It tells us we’re doing our best, valuable, and deserving of love and respect. It’s an excellent reminder that we are worthy of happiness and success.
- The prideful voice: This voice loves to boast about our accomplishments. It tells us we’re better than everyone else and that we can do anything we set our minds to. It’s often loud and arrogant but can also be motivating and inspiring.
It’s essential to listen to all the voices in our heads, but It’s important to learn how to listen to the helpful ones and silence the harmful ones.
Learning to listen to all the different voices in our heads is an integral part of life. Each of these voices has something valuable to offer, and they all play a role in helping us make the best choices for our lives.
When facing a difficult decision, take a moment to listen to your inner voice.
You can access your inner voice through meditation, prayer, journaling, or simply by taking some time to quiet your mind and listen. Pay attention to the thoughts and feelings that come up for you, and trust that your inner voice will guide you to the right decision.
“We all have that inner voice that is wise, even if we don’t always follow it. It’s that voice I’m trying to listen to.” — Ray LaMontagne
How to Handle Negative Thoughts about Yourself
Negative thoughts about oneself can be a significant issue and affect people’s lives in many ways. Awareness of these thoughts and how they impact your emotions, self-esteem, and behaviors is crucial.
There are many strategies for handling negative thoughts about oneself.
Identifying negative thoughts can be the first step in changing them.
Once you are aware of negative thinking, you can start questioning it. Asking yourself if there is any evidence for the thought can help you to see if it is true or not.
If you find that the evidence does not support negative thinking, you can start challenging it. After questioning the negative thought, you may find that your view of yourself starts to change.
It is also essential to consider alternative explanations or options for your perceived problem.
For example, if you think that you are a failure because your startup failed, you could instead view the experience as a learning opportunity. Reframing your thinking in this way can help you to see yourself in a more positive light and can lead to more success in the future.
Consider that there may be other factors outside of your control that contributed to the failure. Realizing that there may be other explanations for your perceived problem can help you start seeing yourself more positively.
If you’re telling yourself that you’re not good enough, try saying something like, “I am doing my best.” If you’re worried about failing, remind yourself that “failure is part of the journey to success.”
Changing negative thoughts about oneself is not always easy, but it is possible. With practice, you can learn to question your negative thoughts and see yourself differently.
A Brief History of Inner Voice Mindsets
Throughout history, the inner voice has been discussed in many different cultures and religions. Each culture and religion has its unique take on the role of the inner voice in our lives.
In Ancient Greece, the philosopher Socrates promoted the idea of an inner voice that he called “the daimon.” This inner voice was a source of wisdom and guidance that could be accessed through meditation and self-reflection. Socrates believed that we could make better life choices by listening to our daimon.
The Stoic philosophers of Ancient Rome also had a similar concept of an inner voice that they called the “rational mind.” Like Socrates, they believed this inner voice could be used as a source of wisdom and guidance. The Stoics believed that by aligning our rational minds with God’s will, we could live a life of virtue and happiness.
In the Christian tradition, the inner voice is often called the “conscience.” This inner voice is a source of moral guidance that helps us make good life choices. Christians believe that by following our conscience, we can live lives that are pleasing to God.
In Buddhism, the inner voice is known as the “monkey mind.” This refers to the fact that our minds are constantly moving, and it can be hard to focus on one thing. Buddhists believe we can develop inner peace and clarity by training our monkey minds.
It’s essential to find what works for you and use it to help you live a happier, more fulfilling life.
Inner Voice Vs. Internal Dialogue
It is crucial to distinguish between the two.
The inner voice is the voice of our conscience that gives us moral guidance.
The internal dialogue is the stream of thoughts we have in our heads all day long. This can be a mix of positive and negative thoughts about ourselves, others, and the world around us.
Our emotions often influence internal dialogue. When we feel happy, our internal dialogue will likely be more positive. When we feel sad, angry, or anxious, our internal dialogue is more likely to be negative.
Our emotions do not influence the inner voice in the same way. It gives us objective guidance, regardless of how we feel.
“Successful entrepreneurs find the balance between listening to their inner voice and staying persistent in driving for success — because sometimes success is waiting right across from the transitional bump that’s disguised as failure.” — Naveen Jain
So listen to your inner voice, and be your inner voice’s best friend. It will help you when it speaks and tell you what it’s thinking.
By using your inner voice in positive ways, you can make changes in your life that will lead to happiness and fulfillment.
How do you experience your inner voice? Is it a positive force in your life or a negative one? If it is negative, what can you do to change that? Let us know in the comments below.
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