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We Are All Biased and Prejudicial: Are You Strong Enough to Challenge Yours?

They shape our thoughts, beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors without us even knowing them.

Alejandro Betancourt
Bottomline Talks
Published in
6 min readMar 14, 2022

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“The air is the only place free from prejudice.” — Bessie Coleman

Biases and prejudices are a part of the human condition. They are not something that is limited to a particular group or ideology. We all have biases and prejudices, whether we like it or not.

Biases and prejudices can affect our perceptions of others in negative ways. Still, they can be used as a positive tool as well.

It is vital to recognize one’s own biases and prejudices not to affect how we perceive others. It is also critical to use biases and prejudices as a tool for good when necessary, such as when we want to help someone who might be less fortunate than us.

We are all different, and everyone has their unique perspective. We should not let our biases and prejudices get in the way of seeing others for who they are. We should also be willing to learn from others, even if we disagree.

It is up to each individual to decide how to use their biases and prejudices. We can choose to let them harm our relationships with others, or we can choose to use them for good. The choice is ours.

What are Biases and How do They Affect Us?

Biases are a type of mental shortcut that people use to make decisions. These shortcuts can be based on our experiences, previous knowledge, and the information we’ve gathered about a topic.

Biases affect us in many ways and can lead to errors in judgment or unfairness.

When we have a bias, we are more likely to believe something or think a certain way about a person or topic. This can lead to rejecting others if our biases are based on unfounded information or stereotypes.

Prejudices are like biases, but they are usually based on feelings rather than facts. Prejudices can also be harmful because they often lead to discrimination against certain groups of people.

It is important to note that not all biases and prejudices are harmful. There are times when having a bias or prejudice can be helpful. For example, if you tend to smoke, it might motivate you to quit. If you have a prejudice against people who are obese, it might make you more likely to eat and exercise.

In other words, biases and prejudices can be helpful or harmful depending on the situation. It is up to us to decide how we want to use them.

Some common examples include:

  • Racial bias is when someone believes that one race is better than another. Racial bias can lead to discrimination and racism.
  • Gender bias is when someone believes that one gender is better than another gender. Gender bias can lead to discrimination and sexism.
  • Age bias is when someone believes that one age group is better than another. Age bias can lead to discrimination against older people or younger people.
  • Sexual orientation bias is when someone believes that one sexual orientation is better than another sexual orientation. Sexual orientation bias can lead to discrimination and homophobia.
  • Religious bias is when someone believes that one religion is better than another. Religious bias can lead to discrimination and religious intolerance.
  • Political bias is when someone believes that one political ideology is better than another. Political bias can lead to discrimination and partisan politics.

There are many other biases and prejudices, but these are the most common.

Can We Use Our Biases and Prejudices for Good?

There are times when it can be helpful to use our biases and prejudices. For example, if we have a bias in favor of something, it might motivate us to work harder. If we have a prejudice against something, we are more likely to avoid it.

Using our biases and prejudices can help us do the right thing in some cases.

For example, let’s say you see someone homeless on the street. You might be biased against homeless people because you think they are lazy or criminals.

But, suppose you stop and talk to the homeless person. In that case, you might find that they are hard workers who have had a series of unlucky events happen to them.

In this case, your bias against homeless people would have been wrong, but your prejudice against them would have been correct.

We Don’t Even Notice Ourselves Acting on Our Biases.

Biases are a part of human nature. There is no getting around it. We are all biased in one way or another, and we don’t even know it.

Some people might say that biases are not a problem because they only exist in our minds, but this is not true. Biases can affect our behavior and actions without us even noticing them.

For example, a study was conducted where people were asked to rate other people’s intelligence. The rating people were not told that they were actually of average intelligence. The raters still rated the people as less intelligent because they had a bias against them.

The Worlds of Perception, Reality & Self-Deception

The world of perception is how humans create their reality.

Self-deception is the process by which people deceive themselves.

Reality is what exists outside of our perceptions.

In the world of marketing and advertising, perception is everything. They say perception is the reality.

Much research has been done on the power of perception to shape reality. Still, recent studies have shown that our perceptions are not always accurate or true.

The power of perception can be used for good or bad. Still, it’s crucial to understand how our perceptions work and how they can be manipulated.

Biases and Prejudices in the Age of Fake News

Fake news is a form of propaganda and disinformation that uses social media and other internet platforms to create false narratives. The content is designed to look like real news, but it is fabricated to shape public perception.

Biases and prejudices are part of human nature, and they have existed since before the internet was created. Fake news takes advantage of these biases by using them as a tool to spread its message.

We need to be careful about what we read on the internet because it can lead us into an echo chamber where we only hear one side of the story.

How Biases and Prejudices Throttle Our Perception

Biases and prejudices are formed through our upbringing and socialization. These are the things that we learn from society and culture.

We often don’t realize that these biases exist in the first place. They shape our thoughts, beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors without us even knowing them.

We all have biases. It is impossible to be completely objective. The key is to recognize and confront these biases.

  • Recognize your biases: The first step in dealing with your own biases is recognizing them. This will help you identify when they influence you and how this affects your relationships with others.
  • Confront your biases: Once you have recognized them, take the time to confront them. Ask yourself what you can do about it or how it might be affecting your interactions with those around you.

When our own biases confront us, we become less likely to let them influence us in the future and more likely to change for the better to better ourselves and our relationships with others.

Are you aware of your biases and prejudices? Have you noticed how they can limit you or empower you? Let me know in the comments!

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This article was first published on Beyond Two Cents.

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Alejandro Betancourt
Bottomline Talks

Entrepreneur, Investor, Executive Coach & Author. Single Dad sharing insights on Mindset, Philosophy, and Self-Improvement.