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Carrie Bradshaw is Not a New Yorker

4 min readSep 19, 2023

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The doormen of New York
Doormen at an apartment building in New York (credit: Monica Ray)

Who’s a real New Yorker to you? Who comes up when you think of New York?

It might be someone in a sharply tailored suit and bound for Wall Street.

It might be someone with highlights in all the right places, sporting a Birkin bag and Jimmy Choos.

If you’re a SATC or AJLT fan (‘Sex and the City’, ‘And Just Like That’ respectively), you’re thinking about Carrie and her girls. Or perhaps someone from ‘The Devil Wears Prada’, like Miranda Priestly.

I respectfully beg to differ. They are NOT real New Yorkers. No sirree.

When we gape in awe at the glamorous characters who — don’t get me wrong- do exist in this town, we forget about an important set of New Yorkers. They don’t all live in the city, but they certainly run it. To me, they’re the real deal.

Carrie Bradshaw in her Manolos is not a real New Yorker!

Doormen

The doormen are the eyes and ears of every single New York apartment building. You’ll see them right outside the doors or peering intensely at everything from the other side of it. They do not miss a trick and…

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Monica Ray, M.Ed, MS
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Written by Monica Ray, M.Ed, MS

Top and Boosted Writer. Travel and Food from 2025. That's it.

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