Is Joy the Best Life Guide?
An invitation to consider what feeds your soul
My friend Cathy Joseph, who writes about random conversations, recently moved from one writing platform to another because the new one feeds her soul.
Her courageous step prompted me to reflect on whether joy should be our primary guide in life. “Joy” is my shorthand for “feed your soul,” but the phrase may have more meanings in your heart.
What does “feed your soul” mean to you?
I tend to stick things out to the bitter end, long past the dissolution of joy. That has included romantic relationships, unfulfilling jobs, and connections with healthcare providers who no longer serve me.
Joy has rarely, if ever, been a determining factor in my life. An overriding sense of responsibility coupled with loyalty has repeatedly decided for me.
But why am I so responsible, even when it compromises my health? Why am I so loyal, even when my allegiance is no longer deserved?
Like a faithful dog, I’ll wait for you forever, hoping for a bone or an affectionate ear rub. Deep inside, I harbor an undying hope that I’ll finally be loved and acknowledged if I’m responsible enough. I’ll finally be loved and acknowledged if my loyalty never wavers.
