The Key to Be Yourself Is To Get Busy Working

When you try to fit in, everything feels bad

Yash Sharma
Bouncin’ and Behavin’ Blogs
2 min readMay 20, 2024

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Being yourself isn’t always easy.

You’ve to stand up for yourself — saying goodbyes to the toxic people, habits, and weak mindset.

On top of that, you’ve to embrace the pain that nobody gives a sh*t about you.

Don’t worry, I’ve covered for you.

Step 1: Clear Your Head

For a month, I was distracted.

  • I put aside my work
  • I started eating junk
  • Overall, I relied on cheap dopamine

I was all fucked up, doubting, and didn’t know what to do.

Then I stepped back and had a little self-talk — If I want to be my true self, I need to get my shit together.

I know my life shouldn’t be this way. I shouldn’t feel lonely. And they should’ve stayed with me. This isn’t what I prayed for.

However, I can’t change it. So, it’s time to change myself and clear my head from the demons that stop me.

Step 2: Start working

I don’t know about your dreams.

Your passion.

But I do know you’re on a mission to become your true self.

And it only happens when you start working on the things that scare you — getting up early, putting in the deep work, and getting better every day. If you can do that, you’re setting yourself up for success.

As Kobe Bryant said:

“The best way to prove your value is to work. It is to learn. It is to absorb and be a sponge. But you always want to outwork your potential. As hard as you believe you can work, you can work harder than that.”

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Yash Sharma
Bouncin’ and Behavin’ Blogs

23 years old | Helping you overcome fears, make consistent improvements, and accomplish goals 10X faster.