THE TEACHINGS OF TIKIFUIUS #5 : THE BULLY & THEIR EGO
A BULLY is bred not born
A BULLY is a predatory BITCH.
They stay on patrol to control.
And terrorize your soul.
They sniff out fragile EGOS to feed on.
Their power over others nourishes their loveless soul.
They figure if no one will love them right then at least they’ll be feared.
Still get some recognition.
Some attention.
Cuz they sure aren’t getting it at home.
BULLIES aren’t born — they’re bred.
A child’s EGO responds to whatever trauma and drama Daddy and Mama pass down.
Sometimes it comes from other family members or caregivers — anyone consistently present in their early years.
That’s when the seed of BULLYING gets planted.
The way a BULLY bullies others indicates how they were traumatized.
Some choose variations of physical abuse to torture their victims.
Others like to live in your MIND.
It’s how they were taught.
Their EGO needs to bring everyone lower than themselves.
Their jealousy decides their targets.
A BULLY sees another getting a specific type of love they lack in their own life — and their jealous EGO loses it.
Gets obsessed on making them as miserable as they feel.
Not realizing they’d feel a lot better if they just HEAL.
And some do.
BULLY EGOS often reform when they decide to heal from their childhood drama.
To learn their triggers and traumas.
The EGO of a BULLY is only reparable when they understand this core principle:
SELF-LOVE is the only LOVE your EGO needs to thrive and survive.
It is the only love you can control.
It is the ecosystem of how your EGO can healthily grow.
It’s what takes you from forcing to attracting everything you want and need.
Breakthroughs don’t happen overnight tho.
I tell my clients this all the time.
You can’t expect a small lifetime of trauma to heal in a couple months.
For you to wake up and just be like: “I don’t wanna be a BITCH and a BULLY anymore” — and your triggers and bad mind behaviours just magically disappear.
To heal the EGO you must reprogram your MIND and your SPIRIT.
We’ll dive in more.
Stay tuned.
-to be continued-
BIO
TABITHA BLAIR is a code-switching Jamaican/Canadian SPIRITUAL ADVISOR/DREAM INTERPRETER/WRITER who was born n raised in Toronto, Canada.
If you would like to book a consultation for therapy, life advice, or dream interpretation — email me at the address below.
Email: tikifucius@yahoo.com
