PSYCHOLOGY
The Types of Narcissists and How to Tell Them Apart
It’s a common saying and an oft-repeated one at that: we don’t choose who we fall in love with. Still, that doesn’t mean we can’t exercise caution. There are many dating pitfalls out there, and to avoid getting involved in a toxic relationship, it is important to know what and who to steer clear of.
At the top of everybody’s list should be narcissists, given how easy it can be to fall for their (superficial) charms. Before anybody starts thinking that they already have a good handle on how to spot narcissists, it pays to know that there are actually several types that display distinct characteristics. With that said, let’s break down the specific types of narcissists and see what makes each one tick.
Overt Narcissists
This first type reads like the stereotypical narcissist. They thrive on seeking attention and desire excessive praise. Their self-esteem is high as their ability to empathize with others is low. Other notable traits include blazing arrogance and entitlement.
Covert Narcissists
This second type is far more subtle, which makes them a bit more concerning. Also known as vulnerable narcissists, they tend to be introverted and highly sensitive to criticism. Furthermore, they often express low opinion of themselves, but are quick to play the victim role as they shift blame for their mistakes onto others.
Communal Narcissists
The third type can be just as showy as the first, but their angle lies more on looking morally-superior to others. Communal narcissists exhibit high sensitivity to unfair circumstances, be it real or perceived. Speaking of perception, they tend to view themselves as generous and saintly. They go as far as to express altruistic values, though in reality, they hardly ever practice what they preach.
Antagonistic Narcissists
This fourth type is thought of by some to be a mere subtype of the first. Antagonistic narcissists characterize themselves as highly competitive individuals. Going beyond that, their focus on rivalries moves well past any healthy standard, and they display tendencies to disagree and argue. More worrisome traits are their propensity to take advantage of others and be extremely manipulative, distrustful, and unforgiving.
Malignant Narcissists
Arguably the most severe and destructive type are the malignant narcissists. There are even mental health researchers that go as far as to consider this to be a hybrid of antisocial personality disorder. Malignant narcissists often display paranoia, with a focus on those who are seemingly poking fun at them, in addition to extreme aggression, sadism, and vindictive behavior.
It can be scary to think about how varied narcissistic behavior can be. It only goes to show the potential dangers that await the unsuspecting out there. Given how complicated and challenging dating can already be, the last thing anyone needs is to partner up with someone who blatantly displays any of the traits listed above.
However, there is another common and oft-repeated saying that rings true here: knowledge is power. As long as you know what you are dealing with, your chances of getting entangled with any of the aforementioned types of narcissists should be much lower now.
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