Why Good, Nice People Die Sad and Become Unhappy: How Philanthropists Abuse Their Families

In a world filled with undeniable and unending sad news

God'sgift Oghale Amos
Bouncin’ and Behavin’ Blogs
3 min readJun 18, 2023

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Sometimes we wonder why most so-called good and nice men die unhappy after helping thousands of people to achieve their dreams.

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Most good men die unhappy and later see their once good family break into part by part and piece by piece, eating deep into all they had struggled for and built over the years... Life is funny and many times the family which we hold in high esteem, is what we can’t think of, after so many years of happiness which seems to last forever.

If you are a Philanthropist, a good man, and a nice man. Probably this is for you.

Being good is good, is great, and after all a wonderful thing. It brings joy and a great life experience. What is more wonderful than any man seen as very good in society? It makes him feel respected and also pleased to see his achievement.

But as an individual, you should see beyond this. Many families, many homes, and many houses who seemed to be happy outward are very unhappy and pained inside their homes. Many good people have silently lost their families and loved ones through the means of being good by helping others.

According to studies many men who tend to help people especially outsiders don't care about their families. They spend time with people, friends, and the entire community to help other children achieve the goals that they forget that they have families.

This is what someone said about Emotional and Messiah Complex Men:

"My daughter will NEVER marry a man whom everyone calls a good man or a generous man. The children of generous men die of starvation. The wives of good men are the most abused. I doubt if anyone has as many files on 'Publicly good people' like myself - so I speak from deep knowledge. Beware of PUBLIC GENEROUSITY AND MEN WHO ARE DESPERATE TO BE CALLED A GOOD MAN." -Awusie Charles

Why Is That So?

Most good men or people tend to be emotional while helping you and they forget that being emotional doesn't help. They give advice and spend time with other people and their children and never spend a little time with their children and spouse. They sacrifice for others out there and put their families at risk. They think doing these things will help reduce the world's burden but end up weighing them down.

They go further without even knowing this action if there are breaks in their loved ones that soon cannot be repaired. Going extreme on the other hand!

And after they know it, the once beautiful journey which they are proud of, is become destroyed that they had been protecting from others. Realizing this and how far they had already gone. They fall Into deep thoughts and die unhappy. Becoming so sad, Hearts full of regrets, and at this point all the people they have been good to leave them all to themselves, forgetting they even exist.

This is how most so good men abuse their families! Although not all…

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