Things to Keep in Mind for 2020

And make it better

Stephie Neuman
Brainstorming Lines
3 min readDec 31, 2019

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Certain things are up only to ourselves, to no one else.

Learn to keep certain things secret in your heart. Not everyone needs to know about your victories and failures, nor all things that happens in your life.

You can share some of them to your family, to your beloved ones but always be careful with who you open up with, remember not everyone wants your success. May people know you’re happy, just not how happy.

Focus on what actually matters.

Worry more about things that really add something to your life, that has a regional/national or worldwide impact, things that makes you grow. Pay less attention to free hate, toxic people and things that don’t add anything to you as a human, as a professional.

Live real life more. People don’t last forever. Give them love.

I know many of us work on internet and use social media as tools, but try not to spend so much free time on social networks, value those who you love and are right at your side. The connections you know that you’ll miss out once they’re gone.

Also, be true and real to those you love. Live more, be responsible but be carefree. Don’t get to 2021 wondering what would have happened if you texted that person, if you took that chance, if you said this or that thing — simply do it. Give yourself a little more freedom to live at least a bit more how your heart tells you to.

Mental health matters.

Try to be nice to yourself this year, and take care in a proper way.

Identity, essence, character and personality are what dictate your beauty, not your appearance.

This is a subject I’ve heard about during all the decade, so I’m bringing this up once and for all if there’s still someone out there needing to know. The years may pass, your exterior may change countless times as long as inside you remain you. Everyone has a unique charm as long as they accept and love themselves exactly as they are. Embrace your essence!

In the end that’s all that matters.
Make 2020 the year you’ll be prettier from your soul.

What people seek in each other is who they really are and how they make them feel.

In addition to the last topic, what makes someone love you is not your appearance, but your essence — the set of characteristics that make up your temperament and your identity. No one is looking for a Ken or a Barbie, people just look for someone in this world who they can be themselves with without worrying.

Don’t get attached to the past, learn from it and build a future.

The year 2019 was difficult for a lot of people. If you look at your struggles as lessons and retain proper learning, you can view 2019 as a year that has strengthened you, rather than a year that has defeated you.

Take action.

Set new goals, make things happen. For real.

Make all things new.

Face 2020 really as a fresh start. The day of the turn of the decade is not just another day, it is a milestone for your success.

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Stephie Neuman
Brainstorming Lines

Community Manager at Ubisoft Brasil and secret DedSec member. Former journalist. Talkative nerd that constantly travels in time and space. Opinions on my own.