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Happiness is Magic
Happiness is Magic
What does happiness look like? I’ve seen it, once or twice. It is magical.
Cassie Brighter
Aug 2, 2019
An Open Letter To a Good Man:
An Open Letter To a Good Man:
Listen. I know you’re hurting. I know that you did not grope, did not rape, did not molest. I understand you feel the broad brush is…
Cassie Brighter
Nov 24, 2017
The Day I Invented a Religion for My Children
The Day I Invented a Religion for My Children
One parent’s solution to her children’s religious questions
Cassie Brighter
Dec 20, 2018
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Don’t Be a Karen: Be a Joan
Don’t Be a Karen: Be a Joan
We have seen the bad behavior. Let’s look at GOOD role models.
Cassie Brighter
Sep 26
She Doesn’t Have to Explain Herself. Her Heart is Pure.
She Doesn’t Have to Explain Herself. Her Heart is Pure.
But this is the big dilemma of the white cis, het, Christian middle-class American woman, isn’t it?
Cassie Brighter
Sep 4
Exposed: The REAL Groomers
Exposed: The REAL Groomers
The Southern Baptist Church, and their very REAL (and massive) scandal of child sexual abuse
Cassie Brighter
Jan 14
I’m So Sorry… We Were Taught To Hate You…
I’m So Sorry… We Were Taught To Hate You…
A prisoner looks at another. For the first time, they see.
Cassie Brighter
Jan 25, 2021
“I Never Cared,” She Wrote
“I Never Cared,” She Wrote
And I replied, “Yes, that has been the problem all along.”
Cassie Brighter
Nov 27, 2020
The Star of The Queen’s Gambit Was Bullied for Being ‘Ugly.’
The Star of The Queen’s Gambit Was Bullied for Being ‘Ugly.’
Why we all struggle with body image — here’s what we can do about it.
Cassie Brighter
Nov 27, 2020
On Having a Grateful Heart
On Having a Grateful Heart
Allowing ourselves to feel joy for what we have, rather than pain for what we lack.
Cassie Brighter
Nov 23, 2020
On Becoming an Authentic Person
On Becoming an Authentic Person
The challenges that keep us from showing ourselves, the benefits of being real.
Cassie Brighter
Nov 22, 2020
At Portland’s Wall Of Moms Tonight
At Portland’s Wall Of Moms Tonight
The Moms came prepared. Most of them have some form of protective headgear on. They’re expecting trouble. They’re not scared.
Cassie Brighter
Jul 21, 2020
The Devil is Beating His Wife
The Devil is Beating His Wife
“Political Correctness,” and how language gives permission to the worst in us
Cassie Brighter
Jun 16, 2020
This Is NOT Just About George Floyd. This Affects Us All. It’s About All Of Us.
This Is NOT Just About George Floyd. This Affects Us All. It’s About All Of Us.
BlackLivesMatter isn’t a protest because George Floyd was a hero. BLM protests ordinary black people dying, because of systemic racism.
Cassie Brighter
Jun 6, 2020
A Ghost Who Lives In Your House
A Ghost Who Lives In Your House
But all they do is rearrange your fridge magnets to spell out self-care and helpful messages…
Cassie Brighter
May 12, 2020
Little Babies Everywhere — Surrogacy Then and Now
Little Babies Everywhere — Surrogacy Then and Now
Surrogacy today is a far cry from the way it’s depicted in Mia Warren’s storyline in Celeste Ng’s Little Fires Everywhere
Cassie Brighter
May 8, 2020
How To Be A Parent Without Having Your Teen Hate You
How To Be A Parent Without Having Your Teen Hate You
Three key tips for parents of teenagers — especially queer teenagers
Cassie Brighter
May 6, 2020
We’re All Living
We’re All Living
This is the messy, dirty, exhausting and wondrous adventure called life
Cassie Brighter
Feb 4, 2020
The Work’s Not Finished
The Work’s Not Finished
On hearing the news of John Lewis’ cancer diagnosis
Cassie Brighter
Dec 29, 2019
Bill Gates Is Not Our Problem
Bill Gates Is Not Our Problem
And neither is that cup of Starbucks coffee.
Cassie Brighter
Nov 7, 2019
Religious Values? My Response to Attorney General Barr
Religious Values? My Response to Attorney General Barr
What has replaced the Judeo-Christian values, he asks
Cassie Brighter
Oct 13, 2019
15259. That’s Our Family’s Number. You Have To Remember.
15259. That’s Our Family’s Number. You Have To Remember.
We don’t call them concentration camps.
Cassie Brighter
Jul 13, 2019
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