Antagonistic Narcissism: The Dark Side of Overt Narcissism
This is the side of narcissism we hate the most.
Narcissism is known as a spectrum disorder. Narcissists display a range of behaviors, from annoying but healthy to pathologically dangerous. As discussed in previous articles, there are two main types of narcissism: overt and covert. Grandiose behavior, excessive self-love, and a need for admiration characterizes overt narcissism. Covert narcissism is characterized by insecurity, shyness, and a lack of self-confidence. Today, we will discuss a lesser known subtype of overt narcissism: antagonistic narcissism.
Antagonistic narcissists are characterized by their manipulative and aggressive behavior. They often use others to get what they want, and they have no problem exploiting people for their own gain. They are also highly competitive and always need to be the center of attention. Antagonistic narcissists can be very destructive both to themselves and to those around them.
People with antagonistic narcissism often abuse, both emotionally and physically. They use power and position to make life difficult for those around them, and they derive a great deal of satisfaction from seeing others suffer.
Some common behaviors associated with antagonistic narcissism include:
- Constant criticism and belittling of others
- Excessive demands for attention and compliance
- Threats or actual physical violence
- Manipulation and exploitation for personal gain.
If you are in a relationship with someone who exhibits these behaviors, it can be very difficult to escape. It is important to remember that you are not responsible for someone else’s behavior, and you deserve to be treated with respect. Seek help from friends, family, or a professional if you cannot leave the situation on your own. Remember, you are not alone.
