A Freak in the Sheets? Only if You Want to Be
Don’t engage in sex acts you’re not comfortable with in an effort to please or keep a man.
While anyone in a relationship should take pleasing their partner seriously (and your partner should do the same), you shouldn’t be made to feel like you have to participate in sex acts you’re uncomfortable with to prove how kinky you are or keep him happy.
I remember in grad school, a Friends With Benefits situation kept trying to get me to give him a blow job one night he was over. I politely let him know that was a non-starter for the type of relationship we had.
Blow-jobs are for boyfriends.
He then said to me if he wanted us to continue hooking up, I needed to suck his dick. He basically told if I didn’t, there were plenty of other women who would.
Really now?
Uber wasn’t a thing then, or I would have called him one. But I did put his butt out never to be invited over again. You’re not going to force me to do something I don’t want to do in the name of keeping you around.
It really is that simple.
I have no problems with a woman wanting to take an oral sex class, or watching porn for new tricks, or having a threesome if she’s excited to…
